Everyone wants to fit in to some degree. While there are people who like being different, at the same time they want to know they’re still normal, especially when it comes to accepting their body. Bodies – and body parts – come in all shapes, sizes and colours but knowing what’s average and what falls within the normal range helps people to accept what they have, decide what they want to work on and know if there’s a problem that needs to be addressed. For men, concerns about penis size, sexual performance and personal health can be difficult to resolve since male sexual health remains a fairly taboo subject. But we’ve rounded up 5 of the biggest questions men worry about to finally deliver some answers and reassurance.

Question 1: What’s the Average Size?

Men worry about penis size for a number of reasons. Of course, there’s the pressure to measure up to ideals set by the media or entertainment, but today most people have begun to reject those unachievable ideals. More often, their concerns have to do with being able to satisfy their partner and simply wanting reassurance about whatever size they have. According to a number of different studies, the average American male has a penis that measures between 5 and 6 inches when erect.

Question 2: Can a Penis Break?

Every guy has worried about breaking his penis at one point or another. Many times, men have this worry as a child but then decide it simply isn’t possible and laugh about it as adults. So it may come as something of a shock to learn that a penis can actually break, though not in the way people may have thought. When a penis is erect and hits against something hard – a pelvic bone, a thigh, even a wall – it can rupture the tunica albuginea, or the fibrous part of the penis. In minor cases this can cause a sprain like feeling but in extreme cases it’s called a penile fracture. A fracture should always be seen by a doctor, even if that means visiting an Emergency Room after hours.

Question 3: If I Experience Impotence Once, Does That Mean it Will Happen Again?

It’s true that impotence is one of the most common chronic conditions when it comes to a man’s sexual health. But it’s also true that millions of men experience impotence once in a blue moon and never have to struggle with it on a regular basis. Since impotence is so common, men shouldn’t worry too much if it happens once or twice. Stress, anxiety, poor diet and even just being distracted can easily trigger the problem. If the issue increases in frequency or becomes a problem in your sex life, seeking medical advice can help to identify the underlying cause and get help with the immediate problem.

Question 4: Do Women Care About Penis Size?

Yes and no. The fact of the matter is, penis size does matter, but only up to a point. A number of recent studies have found what fans of anecdotal evidence have known for years – women care about length and girth and whichever one they prefer depends on the woman. Several studies have found that women prefer a penis that is in proportion to his body and that they do care about quality over quantity. More than anything, though, women appreciate a man with confidence.

Question 5: Why Is My Penis Crooked?

Many men have a slight bend or curve to their penis when erect. Some men, however, have a more pronounced curve or full bend which, in extreme cases, can cause pain and problems with performance. This condition is called Peyrione’s Disease and can be treated in a number of different ways, depending on the severity. Treatment options include surgery, vitamins, pharmaceuticals and even the use of traction devices. Many cases, however, improve on their own over time.