Although the porn industry caters to its major clientele – men – women have begun to step forward and demand their share, too. The book ’50 Shades of Gray’ did more than just burn its way through the bestseller list. It also gave women the chance to devour erotica written with them in mind, something men have been able to do for years. The unprecedented popularity of the 50 Shades series has given women all over the world the chance to explore this and other erotic fiction written with a female audience in mind. The popularity of these books also gives men the inside track they need. You want to know what a woman wants? Check out her bookcase.
Men, Women and Sex – The Vital Difference in Stimulation
Scientific research has long argued that men are more visual and women more cerebral so it makes sense that their choices in erotic literature or products should follow suit. Also debates rage on about various types of pornography, erotic literature, art and entertainment has existed since the dawn of recorded history. While the porn industry has traditionally developed and manufactured products to appeal to men, women have become an increasingly powerful part of the customer base. While more women are purchasing movies, erotic art and magazines, the vast majority prefer to buy both romance and erotic novels as opposed to more visual stimulation.
How Her Reading Habits Can Help Your Early Ejaculation
Learning about what your partner finds so interesting can help men dealing with early ejaculation in a number of ways. One of the most common treatments at the onset of premature ejaculation is to find ways to sexually satisfy your partner other than penetrative sex. This doesn’t mean that traditional sex is off the table, simply that you need to add to your arsenal. After all, while you’re dealing with treatment options, you won’t want it to upset your sex life any more than it has to. By developing new skills based directly on what your partner wants, you’re creating a truly win-win situation.
Checking out what she’s reading will give you valuable insight into what really gets her motor revving. Most women enjoy extended foreplay which also helps to treat some of the symptoms associated with premature and early ejaculation. This condition happens, in part, because the penis becomes overly stimulated. Putting the brakes on a getting into serious teasing helps you to regain control while keeping you aroused and erect. Staying erect for a long time does heighten sensitivity and often extended foreplay is done in conjunction with sprays or creams which can help to delay ejaculation. However, extended foreplay also means your partner will have a heightened sensitivity as well, which can work in your favour.
Going through her bookshelf can take some time, but it may be a great way to help her to open up about what she really wants. Sex can be awkward to discuss openly, even for the most open minded people. It can also be difficult to tell someone what you want, sometimes you don’t even know you want to try something until you’re exposed to it through erotic entertainment. Take your cues from all the books she reads and either surprise her with a night of passion or use them as a way to start a conversation over a romantic dinner. Even the act of discussing your sex life intimately can help strengthen emotional bonds and be a form of extended foreplay.
Finding ways to successfully treat early ejaculation often takes effort on each person in a relationship. Some treatments like sprays and creams offer immediate, but temporary, relief. Other treatment options like therapy, changes in diet or pharmaceutical treatments can offer long lasting treatments but it can take awhile to get results. Finding ways to spice up your sex life can offer immediate attention to your relationship and can help reduce stress associated with early ejaculation while pursuing other treatment options. Plenty of women are now finding erotic novels and entertainment that interest them and the popularity of these books means men can get the inside track to what their partners really want. Using that insight to improve a couple’s sex life helps each partner in dealing with this common condition.
