Ever wonder what people think about you in the sack? The problem is there’s no review system for people to share how they rate others when it comes to sex. That means you probably

only hear the good things and little, if any, time is given to areas in which you could use some improvement.

Of course, no one wants to listen to people criticising them when it comes to sex, but how can anyone get better if they don’t know what they’re doing wrong? That’s why we came up with this True or False quiz that will let you look for red flags that indicate a problem and learn what you can do to improve your game.

True or False: You Believe Foreplay Is Optional

If you’ve answered False, then you have the right foundation for being good in bed. But guys who think foreplay is optional are already slipping behind the crowd. The fact is that sex is about a lot more than just SEX. Foreplay does more than set the mood, it gives you a chance to show off all kinds of skills and to drive your partner wild before you even begin with the Main Attraction. Men who know how to use foreplay to their advantage not only have partners who are more satisfied, they are more likely to be happy too. After all, when the woman in your life is happy in bed, it’s pretty much impossible to be miserable.

True or False: Trying New Things is More Trouble Than It’s Worth

Change is hard no matter what area of your life you try to introduce it. When it comes to sex, change or trying something new presents a number of challenges. First there’s the issue of even bringing it up with your partner. Then you’ll have to jump in and get all the kit, learn the ricks and hit the ground running … right? No. No, no and absolutely not. Of course you’ll need to – WANT to – talk to your partner, but you don’t have to be an expert just to bring up an idea. Instead, keep the conversation light and fun by talking about your own erotic fantasies and especially asking her about her own. By keeping things fun and demonstrating your interest in making her fantasies a reality you will make it easier for the both of you to open up and be in the mood to try new things. Once you decide on something, don’t worry about making a huge investment in accessories or toys if you don’t need to. Most fetishes and fantasies can be initially explored on the cheap if you’re willing to get creative. If you try something and enjoy it, then you can shop around for the accessories that will take your play time to the next level.

True or False: Her Pleasure Depends Entirely on YOUR Performance

At first this seems like the answer is obvious – it’s true, right? Wrong. While your performance does impact her overall pleasure (obviously) it isn’t the only thing that matters. Let’s look at the other factors that influence her pleasure. It’s about how much she feels appreciated, loved and – let’s not beat around the bush here – downright worshipped and adored. You want to give your partner a night she will never forget? Focus all of your attention and energy on pleasing her.

True or False: The Louder She Is, The Better You Are

While it’s true there are women who are naturally loud when it comes to sex, if she is going over the top and making enough noise to get the neighbours complaining, you might want to re-evaluate how you interpret that. Many women have openly discussed the fact that they will happily turn up the volume and put forth their best acting skills in order to hurry a guy along and get him to finish. So if she’s being too loud, you might want to change what you’re doing and see if her response is less vocal, but more authentic.