Everyone is talking about living life to the fullest, making use of your time when you are here on Earth and living the kind of life that won’t leave you with regrets at the end. Bucket

Lists have become a shorthand way to talk about the things people want to experience or achieve before they die. Usually these lists include seeing the Grand Canyon, going parachuting and other big activities. The idea is that each of these experiences enrich your life and are worth doing before you die.

Recently, several lists about ways to enrich your sex life have been making the rounds. The original Sexy Bucket List was written by Sasha Brown-Worsham and after it went viral, other writers and websites came up with their own versions. But in the interest of accuracy, we decided to have a look at the original – 50 Sexual Experiences Everyone Should Have Before They Die:

1. Kiss a girl
2. Have anal
3. Have a threesome
4. Engage in group sex
5. Have phone sex
6. Masturbate
7. Use a vibrator
8. Use a sex toy on someone else
9. Be tied up
10. Tie someone up
11. Have sex in a public space
12. Be a voyeur and watch others having sex (live porn does not count)
13. Sex in a car
14. Sex at a drive-in
15. Mile-high club
16. Sex with a stranger
17. One-night stand
18. Married sex (the best kind, in my opinion)
19. Sex on a boat
20. Sex in a body of water
21. Light spanking
22. Read erotica
23. Play strip poker/Monopoly/card game
24. Sex in the shower
25. Sex standing up against a wall
26. Sex with no kissing
27. Sex in the pitch black
28. Sex in the broad daylight
29. Making out with no sex long after you’re no longer a virgin
30. Sex in a tent in the wilderness
31. Watch porn together
32. Watch porn alone
33. Learn to give yourself multiple orgasms
34. Sex on the beach
35. Blindfolds
36. Using ice sexually
37. Sexual role play
38. Whipped cream
39. La Perla lingerie sex
40. Frederick’s of Hollywood lingerie sex
41. Sex with someone much older
42. Sex with someone younger (legal!)
43. Sex in a foreign country, possibly with a foreigner
44. A quickie in a skirt
45. A longie in the rain
46. Sex in the ocean while people swim all around you
47. Feather ticklers
48. Sex while “altered” whether by alcohol or something else
49. Learn to orgasm in less than five minutes from intercourse alone
50. Silent sex in a full house

Some of these are easy to tick off your list while others could be a bit more challenging. The benefit of working through these – for people who enjoy being adventurous sexually – is that each one will truly expand your horizons. The key, of course, is to engage in each activity safely and without compromising your personal values.

That is part of the reason so many other lists began to crop up. People wanted to have listed geared especially for parents, single people, couples who have been married for years, the LGBT community and so on. The idea is simple – no matter who you are or how you express your sexuality, there’s always a way to make it more fun and more interesting.