The Internet Age has given rise to a radical change in many aspects of human interaction. It’s not uncommon now for people to have close friends, co-workers and even boyfriends, girlfriends or lovers who live miles away. A study released in 2013 found that one-third of all marriages were from relationship which began online which leads many experts to think that more than half of even casual relationships begin and are maintained online, typically over a long distance. When your lover lives in another city, state or country, how can you keep your sex life spicy?

Turning Up the Heat Across the Miles

Maintaining a long distance relationship takes a fair amount of work and it can be a lot of fun if you’re willing to tap into your creative side. In some cases it may mean stretching outside your comfort zone but the payoff is well worth it.

Phone Sex

Phone sex may be the original lifeline for long distance relationships ever since the telephone became a common household item. Alexander Graham Bell may have never imagined this as the ultimate legacy of his invention but nevertheless, couples have been burning up the phone wires for years. Phone sex can be awkward for both people at first, especially if they’ve never done it before, but it’s also the perfect way to practice and perfect your dirty talking skills which can come in handy for in person visits as well.

Not Exactly Face Time

Face Time, Skype and other web cam enabled chatting platforms may market themselves as being a great tool for business but it’s also a great way to keep in touch in the most personal way of all. For many couples it offers the chance for one to put on a private sex show for the other or engage in long distance mutual masturbation. Instructing your partner on how to touch themselves lets you maintain control and gives them the thrill of submission.

Saucy Massages

Sexually charged texts and emails are a great way to keep one another’s state of arousal running high, especially if they come out of nowhere. Two o’clock on an otherwise boring Tuesday afternoon? Text your partner and let her know what you’d be doing to her if you were holed up in a seedy motel somewhere. Stuck in a meeting about the annual report? Dash off a message about how amazing she felt during your last visit. Get specific and load on the sexy details. You’ll be surprised how much of a spring it can put in your step and how turned on she’ll get from it as well. Keep the dirty texts, emails or voicemails flying hot and heavy then cut her off. Wait until the evening and follow up with a phone call or web cam conversation and things ill get hot in no time.

Keep the Postman Busy

Sexy care packages have a double benefit. First, they show you’re thinking of your partner – something every woman likes to know. Secondly, receiving packages the ‘old fashioned’ way connects with her on another level, a tangible on that is all too often missing from long distance relationships. Stock the package with lingerie, mementoes of your time together, saucy DVDs and other items you know she’ll appreciate.

Spicing up your sex life doesn’t always have to mean trying out a new position or checking out a sex show. Sometimes it’s about making an intimate connection even when you’re separated by the miles. These simple tricks will keep your woman hungry and ready for more no matter when your next visit falls on the calendar.